How To Get Over Your Own Bullshit
We are officially in the second half of 2020 - the year of expansion (also known as the year ‘we woke the fuck up’, the year of ‘what the actual fuck’, ‘is this really happening?’ and ‘I guess this is how we’re doing things now lol’).
Nobody can deny that 2020 is the year of GROWTH, and guess what, lovebugs… growth doesn’t always feel so good. It can feel heavy, difficult, painful.
Maybe you woke up to your own bullshit as a result of the forced isolation with COVID-19, maybe you were alerted to your ignorance to the race issues that have been going on since the dawn of time. Maybe something else profound happened to you as a result of #allthethings that have been going on in the collective.
That’s what this year has been - and will continue to be - all about! So if you’re gripping onto your seatbelt for dear life, wondering ‘what the fuck is next’, just remember, it’s all for your evolution and for your highest good and it’s all leading us somewhere beautiful!
Which brings me to the reason for today’s blog!
Despite all the cray cray that’s happened already in 2020, I thought it was a great time to drop in here and remind you that EVEN with all of this painful growth, you STILL get to have what you want in 2020. Your dreams haven’t been cancelled. In fact, all of this painful #growth you’ve been going through is setting you up so you CAN have everything you want.
If 2020 has shown us anything, it’s shown us that we are totally 100% capable of overcoming hard shit. Yes, that includes your own bullshit that is cock-blocking you from getting what you want.
Today I would like to make sure you’re all set up to #slay the rest of the year, blow the fuck up and make some epic shit happen. We’ll address some key steps to GET OVER your own bullshit and create what you want in 2020 - yes, even while the ‘apocalypse’ is unfolding.
Key Steps to Get Over Your Own Bullshit:
Being OPEN
Your belief that what you want to create - whether it’s the 100k year, the soulmate relationship, the instaworthy body or whatever the fuck else - is actually possible for you is the FIRST and most crucial step in overcoming your own bullshit and creating what you desire to create.
Slayers, I want you to really sink into your desires and feel what they feel like.
Let’s go on a journey for a moment together. Pretend for me, that the current reality you live in is fake - it is a matrix, a simulation. The real world contains all the things that you want, exactly as you desire them. What would that feel like for you, to live in this world where magic is real and you get to have everything you desire? Let yourself feel it. What would that possibility open up to you? How would it feel to live in a world that this was the truth? That you could create EVERYTHING and ANYTHING that you fucking want?
Cause I’m telling you, lovebugs… legit, it’s a thing. I remember when I first heard all of this too, and was skeptical AF… so I don’t blame you for having your reservations about it all without having experienced it yourself.
“I’ll believe it when I see it”, you’re probably thinking.
Well, um, no actually, lovebugs.... it’s the other way around.
The only thing that’s stopping you from entering that world and leaving the matrix you’re in behind is your BELIEF that it’s possible. You actually need to CHOOSE, right now, to say to yourself “okay, I believe you, Jamie. I choose to suspend my disbelief and believe you that this is possible.”
I’m not saying that you need to have a 100% solid belief in this being real, but you need to CHOOSE to be open. You need to ask to be shown proof that it is real. And you need to be ready and willing to receive that.
Open up, soften… see the fear as fear and leap anyway. Go all fucking in, and start to question EVERYTHING about your current reality….
Ask - ‘why the fuck NOT?’
Many of you are asking the wrong questions - you’re asking ‘how is this possible?’, ‘why would this happen now?’ and ‘why would this happen for me?’. It’s time to be asking better fucking questions, slayers!
What you should be asking is...
→ Why the fuck NOT?!
→ Why the fuck not now?→ Why the fuck not you?
Seriously, journal on it. Right now. Ask yourself - why not?
That’s a pretty quick way to get the bottom of your own bullshit and see all the excuses and stories you believe about why you’re ‘not the person who’ or why you ‘can’t’.
The truth is, slayers, I’m not fucking special. What I’ve been able to achieve and create with my life isn’t because I’m ‘chosen’ or have some special secret sauce that you don’t have access to. The reason why people are all ‘shut up and take my money, Jamie!’ everytime I show up and say things on the internet is BECAUSE of the deep belief I have in myself, and also in all of you.
I KNOW that what’s been possible for me is possible for you, too.
I was a total nobody when I started out on this path. A beauty school drop-out, a single mom up to her tits in credit card debt and medical bills.
Which means that all of your BS excuses about ‘why not’ just simply don’t fucking land…
Witness the stories you’re telling yourself
Once you’ve asked yourself ‘why not?’, you’ll open up a can of worms containing all the bullshit stories that you believe about yourself. The ‘identity’ that you’ve created, which thus far has kept you safe and small in your bullshit starter kit operating mode. I’ve talked extensively about this in my podcast episode “Upgrading your Starter Kit Brain”, so if you want more juicy deets on how to do this, go check that out, but then come back here cause I’m gonna make this easy and simple for you!
All you need to do is to witness and call out these stories. Journal on the following or write out your story in third person asking yourself -
→ What’s your “story”, your “starter kit mode” or your “identity” that you’ve been operating in up until now?
→ What default setting are you on at this moment?
→ What are the exact thoughts going on in your head?
→ Who is the person that you think you are?
*HINT* if you’re struggling, go back to step 2 and what you uncovered in your ‘why not’ excuses. This will give you a pretty good idea of your story!
The more you consistently WITNESS the stories you’re telling yourself, the less power they will have over you. You’ll begin to recognize how these stories are limiting and constraining you, and how you’re going to need to rewrite your story (create a better fucking story) if you want to create what you desire to create.
This is really how simple this ‘manifesting your best lyf’ shit can be, slayers.
Believing it’s possible - OPENING UP to the possibility - and then examining all of the BS coming up in your mind which contradicts this belief or cockblocks you along the way!
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